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When relationships break down, the impact on children is often underestimated. Many children experience an array of confusing and frightening emotions and behaviours as they witness their family unit fall apart. Making the right arrangements for a child’s long-term care will help to alleviate their confusion and add certainty to a situation that has few clear rules.
Choosing the right divorce and family lawyer is important to ensure your children’s best interests are considered when arranging their care. There are many questions and issues to consider, so professional guidance from an independent expert will improve the process of negotiating an acceptable outcome for everyone.
Faced with a Google list of divorce and family lawyers in your area, it can be difficult to know which is most suited to your circumstances and needs, so the following points will help you to narrow down the choice:
While it is important that you feel listened to by your divorce and family lawyer, and that they display sensitivity to your problems and feelings, a degree of candour is also essential. The breakdown of a relationship is rarely a desirable situation, and the best outcomes may not be what you want to hear, so seek a lawyer who promises to give non-judgmental, honest advice.
Having the right qualifications is, of course, important, but in divorce and family law depth of experience is of equal importance. The solicitor should have excellent knowledge of the child arrangement order process and should have supported clients in a similar position. Costs between different lawyers will vary but, by working with a suitably qualified and experienced practitioner, you can be reassured that you won’t be spending money on a solicitor who is out of their depth.
A positive reputation is a powerful sign that you’re choosing your divorce and family solicitor wisely. Previous clients offer the best insight into the quality of the service you will receive – Google reviews and the solicitor’s own client testimonials are useful – but also check for professional memberships (such as being Family Law Accredited).
Consulting a solicitor should ensure that you understand all the options that are open to you, so that you can make an informed decision about how to proceed. For example, mediation or collaborative law may be appropriate, so ensure that your solicitor is prepared and able to offer you the full range of options to help you to achieve a satisfactory resolution that prioritises the needs of your family.
To find out more about our divorce and family legal services, please call Astle Paterson on 01283 531366 to chat to a member of our experienced team.
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